Individual work
Most people arrive carrying a decision they have been turning over for months. A move, a place, a way of living they can see clearly but haven't been able to step into. The thinking has gone as far as it can go alone. This is a room for the rest of it.
Belonging. What it takes to actually arrive somewhere, rather than just live there. The difference between owning a place and being in relationship with it. This comes up more than people expect, and later than they expect.
The decision underneath the decision. You think you are weighing a property, a move, a slower life. Usually there is something else in the room - what you are leaving, what you are hoping the place will fix, what you actually need that you haven't said out loud yet.
The question that keeps getting deferred. The one that has been sitting there for months, waiting for the right space to be thought through properly. Most people leave a session having said something they had not let themselves say before.
This is not coaching. No frameworks, no homework, no programme to complete. It is closer to thinking out loud with someone who is paying full attention and has no stake in which way you go.
Sessions are one hour, one-on-one, by video or in person when that is possible. There is nothing to prepare and nothing to complete afterwards. What the conversation produces is the work.
Some people come once, to think one thing through. Some come for a stretch, because the questions worth sitting with tend to unfold over time rather than in a single afternoon. There is no programme to sign up for. You start with one conversation and we find the shape from there.
The work is paid. I would rather talk about that directly than print a price list, because the right arrangement depends on what you are bringing and where you are. If cost is a genuine barrier, say so - there is room for that, and it does not change how I show up.
The simplest way to begin is to write to me. A few lines about what is on your mind is enough.
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About Jo Petroni
I'm based in France. I trained as an architect and practised for years, but the work I do now happens earlier than any drawing - at the point where someone is still working out what they actually want, before the decisions harden into walls and contracts.
Most of what I do is listen. People come to me with a move, a place, a change of life they can half-see, and we sit with it until it gets clearer. I am not invested in which way they go. That turns out to matter more than advice does.
People have been finding their way to these conversations for a long time, often without either of us calling it anything. A friend at a difficult crossroads. Someone met once who needed to say something out loud. At some point it seemed honest to give it a name and a door, rather than pretend it was a favour.
The through-line is the same as in everything I do: pay attention long enough and a place, or a person, starts to show you what it is actually asking for. Underneath what it first appears to want.
Get in touch
If you're not certain this is the right thing or the right time, send a message. We can work that out before you commit to anything. Or, if you'd rather start on your own, five questions will tell you whether a conversation makes sense right now.